Personal & everyday

Hard conversation prompt

A copy-and-paste prompt for ChatGPT, Claude or Gemini that gets a professional hard conversation on the first try, plus the cheapest model that does it well.

What most people type

how do I tell my roommate I'm moving out at the end of next month without making it awkward

It works, but the AI has to guess your relationship with roommate, lease and notice terms and reason for leaving, so the first answer usually needs another round. The version below asks for exactly what a professional would deliver.

The better prompt

Help me tell my roommate I'm moving out at the end of next month without making it awkward. Give me:
1. A short script for saying it in person, plus a shorter text version in case I send a message instead.
2. Brief advice on timing and setting for the conversation.
3. How to handle likely reactions: surprise, hurt feelings, or worry about rent and the lease.

Context: [our relationship, e.g. close friends or just housemates]; [whether we're both on the lease and what it says about notice]; [any reason I'm leaving I'm comfortable sharing]. Keep the tone warm, direct and respectful. Don't give legal advice; just remind me to check my lease and notice requirements.

Replace the [brackets] with your details before you send it: our relationship, e.g. close friends or just housemates, any reason I'm leaving I'm comfortable sharing.

Why this version works

  • Turned question into a clear deliverable list. Gets a usable script, not generic tips.
  • Added in-person and text versions. Covers both ways people deliver this news.
  • Added reaction handling. This is what makes it awkward in practice.
  • Added context placeholders. Lease and relationship change the advice.

What a professional hard conversation prompt covers

  • A few ways to say it
  • Tips for timing or tone
  • Short

Best AI model for this prompt

This is a light task: short personal message with light advice; small model handles it reliably. You don't need the most expensive model. The cheapest model at each company that handles it well:

CompanyModelPer usePer 1,000 uses
AnthropicClaude Haiku 5.5cheapest$0.00024$0.24
OpenAIGPT-6 Luna$0.00024$0.24
GoogleGemini 3.1 Flash-Lite$0.00071$0.71

Pay-per-use list prices for this prompt and its expected answer (about 450 tokens). On a monthly chat plan, the same choice shows up as more messages before you hit your limit. See today's AI prices.

Hard conversation prompt for ChatGPT, Claude and Gemini (Personal & everyday) · PromptSaver