Personal & everyday

Apology text prompt

A copy-and-paste prompt for ChatGPT, Claude or Gemini that gets a professional apology text on the first try, plus the cheapest model that does it well.

What most people type

help me apologize to my friend for missing her birthday dinner

It works, but the AI has to guess your friend's name, reason I missed it, optional and something specific about her or the dinner, so the first answer usually needs another round. The version below asks for exactly what a professional would deliver.

The better prompt

Write a short, sincere text message apologizing to my friend [friend's name] for missing her birthday dinner. Own the mistake without making excuses, mention [reason I missed it, optional], and include [something specific about her or the dinner]. Offer to make it up to her with [a specific plan, e.g. a call or a meal together]. Keep the tone warm and natural, like a message between friends. Give 2 versions: one brief, one a little more heartfelt.

Replace the [brackets] with your details before you send it: friend's name, reason I missed it, optional, something specific about her or the dinner, a specific plan, e.g. a call or a meal together.

Why this version works

  • Set format as a text message. Keeps the apology short and in its channel.
  • Added placeholders for personal details. Specifics make an apology feel sincere.
  • Asked for two versions. Lets them pick the right level of warmth.
  • Added tone guidance. Avoids stiff or excuse-heavy wording.

What a professional apology text prompt covers

  • Sincere short message
  • A couple of options
  • No excuses-heavy wording

Best AI model for this prompt

This is a light task: short personal apology message; simple writing a small model handles well. You don't need the most expensive model. The cheapest model at each company that handles it well:

CompanyModelPer usePer 1,000 uses
AnthropicClaude Haiku 5.5cheapest$0.00010$0.10
OpenAIGPT-6 Luna$0.00010$0.10
GoogleGemini 3.1 Flash-Lite$0.00028$0.28

Pay-per-use list prices for this prompt and its expected answer (about 170 tokens). On a monthly chat plan, the same choice shows up as more messages before you hit your limit. See today's AI prices.

Apology text prompt for ChatGPT, Claude and Gemini (Personal & everyday) · PromptSaver